Win or Lose?

May 2, 2018

Working with clients over a number of years, it is evident that many - however apparently successful - have a view of the world along the lines of, "I win, or I lose".  And, when faced with certain circumstances, they can then think, "I will lose this time".

Unfortunately, this is a LIMITING belief, and one which will stifle the potential to "win".  Better instead to reframe the situation, and think in terms of a PROCESS statement, leading to an ENABLING belief...

To be specific, rather than saying "I will lose this time", reframe and say "I will learn x from this", and therefore allow the enabling belief, "I will continue to develop and grow".

So, it isn't a question of "Win or Lose", it's - always - actually a question of "Win or Learn"!



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